Sonntag, 27. November 2016

Tim Ferriss - Book-Review (part 1) Tools of Titans

Essentials

“Routine, in an intelligent man, is a sign of ambition.”
— W.H. Auden


Routine is the essential feature of man as Sloterdijk demonstrates in his book You Must Change Your Life. Many researchers nowadays acknowledge the chances that lie in behavioral therapy.

Tim Ferriss himself is a "cumpulsive Note-taker" "since age 18 or so". "8 feet of shelf space" of spine of notebook upon notebook" that he calls the collection of his "life’s recipes." Everything that he approaches, he approaches as a question of experiments.

How to become better? My example of Chess

A good chess player is not obviously a better chess-player, he only makes slightly better moves than you, until your position collapses. Success then is based on micro-advantages.

For us we have to develp a strategy. There is no wonder-medicine that will bring instant success. For Tim Ferriss these strategies are learned from the best that are sometimes compressed in small bites of knowledge.

“learn the macro from the micro.” 

We live now, not in the future, or not in the past. The steps that we make now, determine our sucess. Therefore Tim Ferriss asks:

What makes these people different?

He emphasizes that "these world-class performers don’t have superpowers." They are men with flaws, but at again and again they make better decisions than you. Ferriss suggests the following questions for recognizing the importance of your micro-decisions now:
“What might you do to accomplish your 10-year goals in the next 6 months, if you had a gun against your head?”
Alll of this is intended to demonstrate that "you had the ability to renegotiate your reality all along. It just takes practice." and under the premise that "10x results don’t always require 10x effort." he tries to suggest some of the main strategies that focus on "the small things, done consistently, that are the big things (e.g., “red teaming” once per quarter, Tara Brach’s guided meditations, strategic fasting or exogenous ketones, etc.)."
Here are the major insights:
  • More than 80% of the interviewees have some form of daily mindfulness or meditation practice
  • Many use the ChiliPad device for cooling at bedtime
  • The habit of listening to single songs on repeat for focus (page 507)
  • Nearly everyone has done some form of “spec” work (completing projects on their own time and dime, then submitting them to prospective buyers)
  • The belief that “failure is not durable” (see Robert Rodriguez, page 628) or variants thereof
  • Almost every guest has been able to take obvious “weaknesses” and turn them into huge competitive advantages (see Arnold Schwarzenegger, page 176)
So what do we need to learn? Ferriss gives us a parrabel of Siddhartha

Siddhartha: “It is of great value, sir. If a man has nothing to eat, fasting is the most intelligent thing he can do. If, for instance, Siddhartha had not learned to fast, he would have had to seek some kind of work today, either with you, or elsewhere, for hunger would have driven him. But, as it is, Siddhartha can wait calmly. He is not impatient, he is not in need, he can ward off hunger for a long time and laugh at it. ”
I think of Siddhartha’s answers often and in the following terms:
“I can think” → Having good rules for decision-making, and having good questions you can ask yourself and others.
“I can wait” → Being able to plan long-term, play the long game, and not misallocate your resources.
“I can fast” → Being able to withstand difficulties and disaster. Training yourself to be uncommonly resilient and have a high pain tolerance.

Samstag, 27. August 2016

Glück lernen - Tim Ferriss zum Glück als Teil unseres Bio-Rhythmus

Tim Ferriss: "the problem isn’t the problem. It’s how you think about the problem that’s the problem."
thesis 1. Depression is just one phase of a natural biorhythm and thus both transient and needed…Nothing can peak or sustain red-zone RPMs forever. Normal people exhibit alternating periods of high-output and low-output, the latter being recovery periods during which depleted neurotransmitters stores regenerate, fatigued neural networks recover, etc..
"The symptoms of depression often just reflect a system undergoing routine maintenance."
Fixating on the symptoms as “depression” becomes self-fulfilling and can lead to a downward spiral. Don’t jump to conclusions. Having recurring down cycles is natural. Thinking about them as unnatural, and the poor — sometimes devastating — decisions that follow, is what does the damage.
2. How you label determines how you feelDon’t use the term “depression,” which is loaded with negative and clinical connotations, without considering other labels that might be more appropriate. “Loneliness” or “isolation” are two common substitutes which are not just more precise but more actionable (the term “depression” doesn’t suggest a solution).
In their fascinating study “Would you be happier if you were richer?”, published in Science, Princeton professors Alan Krueger and Daniel Kahneman, winner of the 2002 Nobel Prize for his work in behavioral economics, found that perhaps the best indicator of happiness was frequency of eating with friends and family.
If you have to chose one activity to produce an emotional upswing, start breaking bread more often with those who make you smile.
3. Gratitude training can be used pre- or mid-depressive symptoms to moderate the extremes and speed the transition.It’s frighteningly easy to develop pessimistic blinders and lose sight of the incredible blessings and achievements in our lives. This is common when a single identity — for example, job title and function — leads you to measure self-worth using one or two metrics (like income or promotions, usually in comparison to others) dependent on some variables outside of your control.
Recalibrate your perspective, and prevent over-investment of ego in one area of life, with scheduled gratitude training that takes a holistic inventory of the positive people and achievements in your life.
Be safe and be optimistic. There is a lot to be grateful for… and just as much to look forward to.

http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2015/09/make-you-happy-2/?utm_source=%22Barking+Up+The+Wrong+Tree%22+Weekly+Newsletter&utm_campaign=9b975f8f53-kamb_2_21_2016&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_78d4c08a64-9b975f8f53-57339153


Aus dem Buch "the upward spiral" http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1626251207/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1626251207&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20&linkId=77N7NCUP6RIJGHSV

"Yeah, gratitude is awesome… but does it really affect your brain at the biological level? Yup. You know what the antidepressant Wellbutrin does? Boosts the neurotransmitter dopamine. So does gratitude. Via The Upward Spiral: The benefits of gratitude start with the dopamine system, because feeling grateful activates the brain stem region that produces dopamine. Additionally, gratitude toward others increases activity in social dopamine circuits, which makes social interactions more enjoyable… Know what Prozac does? Boosts the neurotransmitter serotonin. So does gratitude."

2nd label your emotions

3. Decision mahcen

4. Hugging people


Wie glücklich sein: http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2014/06/happiest-people/
http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/08/here-are-the-things-that-are-proven-to-make-y/

Freunde machen glücklich: http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2013/11/how-to-make-friends-easily/


In rente gehen? http://www.zeit.de/wirtschaft/2015-08/arbeitnehmer-rentner-erwerbstaetige

Mittwoch, 24. August 2016

Musik und Glück

Instrument lernen


Trommelkurse



Quellen:

http://bjp.rcpsych.org/content/199/2/92
http://www.apa.org/monitor/2013/11/music.aspx
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20688261
https://www.nami.org/NAMI/media/NAMI-Media/BlogImageArchive/2015/JOURNAL-OF-CLINICAL-NURSING_1.pdf

Dienstag, 26. Juli 2016

Partnerschaft und Freundschaft, Toxic Behaviours, Porn-Critique

http://observer.com/2015/04/the-4-most-common-relationship-problems-and-how-to-fix-them/

Toxic Behaviours:

http://qz.com/580940/toxic-relationship-habits-most-people-think-are-normal/

Wie man wahre Freunde erkennt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oy-KAKvjWDw

The Problem with Porn: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU